getting over it

I'm going to become a counsellor for victim support. Eventually work overseas.

I have to move to either Bendigo, Melbourne or Geelong. I have to decide which.

Pro & Con List:

Bendigo -
*have lived there before (could be either a pro or a con)
*have family there (yet again, could be good or bad)
*i like the city
*could easily get a job there
*am not sure if i'd feel like i was going forward

Melbourne -
*is new
*there are plenty of jobs there
*rent is high
*it gets frantic, often
*i think it'd be a lonely place

Geelong -
* i wouldn't live there, I'd live in one of the coastal towns near there
* thus, commuting would be crap
* but, i would be living by the ocean (<3)
* i don't know anyone there
* there are a lot of jobs there, but they're all hospitality

or maybe another city? Brisbane? No, too far away. Adelaide? Hmm.